Religion

Saturday, May 17, 2025

For the One Who’s Doing Hard Things Alone

 

You are still chosen, even in the shadows. 


There are seasons in life when the weight you're carrying feels unbearable—but no one else seems to notice. You smile at the grocery store. You answer emails. You fold the laundry and get through the day. But inside, you’re screaming, “Does anyone see how hard this is?”

And sometimes, the silence is deafening.

You wonder why the phone doesn’t ring. Why your text wasn’t answered. Why no one followed up when you bravely said, “I’m not okay.”

You wonder if you’re just too much—or maybe not enough.

But in that silence, there is a Presence.
A still, watchful gaze that doesn’t flinch, doesn’t rush, and never looks away.

God sees.
Even when no one else does.


Invisible Doesn’t Mean Forgotten

It’s easy to believe the lie that if people don’t check in, they don’t care. And while their silence may hurt deeply, your worth was never meant to be measured by human attention.

Scripture is filled with the stories of people who suffered in silence—unseen by the world but fully seen by God.

  • Hagar, alone in the desert, cast out and discarded, calls God “El Roi”—the God who sees me (Genesis 16:13). Her entire life was altered by the realization that she wasn’t invisible to God, even if she was expendable to others.

  • Hannah, weeping in the temple over her barrenness, looked like she was drunk to outsiders—but God saw her heart and heard every word she poured out silently in prayer (1 Samuel 1).

  • Jesus, in Gethsemane, wrestled in agony so deep His sweat became like drops of blood. His closest friends slept through it. But Heaven did not.

You are not the first person to be overlooked by people and embraced by God.


God Sees the Tears You Hide

Maybe you’re:

  • Crying in the bathroom so your kids won’t see your pain

  • Going to work each day while grieving someone you haven’t even had time to mourn

  • Fighting to heal while still showing up for everyone else

  • Sitting in church wondering if anyone knows how hard it was just to get out of bed

Let me say what someone should have said to you by now:

You are doing holy, hard work—even if no one applauds it.
Even if they never ask. Even if you never get the thank-you.
Even if your struggle is invisible to those around you.

God sees.
And not only does He see, but He honors your unseen obedience, your hidden perseverance, your late-night prayers, and the thousand quiet sacrifices you make.


What Scripture Says About the God Who Sees

  • “You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book.” —Psalm 56:8

  • “Your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly.” —Matthew 6:6

  • “The eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, and His ears are attentive to their cry.” —Psalm 34:15

  • “Even the very hairs of your head are all numbered.” —Luke 12:7

You are not forgotten in the dark.
You are deeply known in the light of God’s gaze.


Why This Season Matters

Maybe no one sees how hard it is to stay faithful in your marriage when your heart feels crushed.

Maybe no one sees how much energy it takes to keep going while grieving, parenting, working, and healing at the same time.

Maybe no one knows how you’re navigating trauma while still putting dinner on the table.

But God knows.
And He isn’t just observing. He is strengthening, shaping, refining, and preparing you for greater impact.

What feels like invisibility to the world is often the stage where God is doing His deepest work. And when He is finished, others will see the fruit—but God will remember the cost.


To the One Who Feels Invisible

You are not weak for struggling.
You are not dramatic for needing support.
You are not invisible to the One who knit you together and counts your every breath.

You may feel unseen. But you are known.
You may feel forgotten. But you are held.
You may feel invisible. But you are deeply, fully, relentlessly loved.

So hold on—not because the world is watching, but because God is with you. And that’s more than enough.

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